Wednesday, September 24, 2008
teenagers
Why is it that teenagers nowadays (when I say teenagers, I also include myself in this) go through so much drama that affect them in the worst ways possible and force them to grow up so fast? I really don't understand why we all have to go through that "non-stop drama" phase when we can just be carefree and not have to worry about anything except for the simple basic things and needs in life. You can ask every teenager at our school and a majority of them will say that they've been through arguments with friends or arguments with parents, over the tiniest things. If we were to ask our parents about their teenage years, they would have made a list of fun eventful memories from their time and their list of dramas would not even be close in comparison to what we all have now. Our list of memories could be just as long as our list of troubles or of things that bother us. Like right now, I am letting so much get to me. I'm letting basically everything bother me in one way or another. Like for me, when there is so much stress involved, I get confused at so many things, and when I am confused and I end up making way too many mistakes, some I regret later on because they are not fixable. My attitude goes a little crazy and I'm always scared I'll take my anger out on the wrong person, someone who doesn't know what's going on in my life, who doesn't deserve to be yelled at. Either that or I'll cry over everything. Seriously, when stress gets to me, I'm basically an emotional wreck.
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I think adults only seem to have only fond memories of high school because the drama tends to fade into the back of our memory while the happy, innocent moments stand out. It seems like a pretty good defense mechanism, actually- people cope with the life-altering trauma of the past by blocking it out.
Not many teenagers life are fun and carefree as me I think. In life, people change a lot and some of them even realize what they missing and what they need to do. I remember you ask that "why is it that teenagers nowadays go through so much drama taht affect them in the worst ways possible and force them to grow up so fast?" Well, I think that teenagers nowadays have so much stuff that their parent gave them or the things that they have is so big(when I refer to big as they have so much) that they forgotten how valuable it is. When people a teenager, they want to grow up fast so that they can experience things that teenager can't and they do stupid things because of it, to grow up faster(this doesn't apply for all teenager. Their life is boredom and because of that, they try to put something in replace of the boredom they having because their life have no excitement. I notice that during the teenager time(when people a teenager), they want to have change. I want to say more but I can't seem to get down my though about this. I understand what you saying or trying to say but life need drama but too much is a problem. >.<
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